A couple of months ago, I asked my ‘Followers’ if they had any Calendar Tea Towels that they could photograph for me. I had just got ‘into’ Calendar Tea Towels but have so few myself. My friend, Liz K, sent me three photos. I blogged about 1984 on 14 July 2020 but then ‘events’ took over. So I still have two left. Today is 2010.
What a great tea towel! I say that because it is a Pat Albeck, one of 43 Calendar Tea Towels she designed for the National Trust; one every year since 1976. I so miss her Calendar Tea Towels.
This seems like the appropriate moment to write about one of Liz K’s. For some time, she has had a growing desire to move to Scotland, to live near her two daughters, their partners and her grandchildren. It’s a feeling that many grandparents experience. If you don’t make the most of your grandchildren when they are young that time will be gone. For her, Scotland was too far away. Don’t get me wrong, she has probably spent more time with her grandchildren than many grandparents have but it has had to be in ‘big chunks’. It is a bit difficult to be spontaneous when we are talking about a 250 mile one-way trip; you can’t pop in for a cup of coffee or decide to go for a trip to the park.
The decision to sell up and move was not easy. She had shared a house with her best friend for more than 15 years, a house of their dreams that offered separate living space, with the company of a friend thrown in. If she left then they both left. They sorted that out. Then the house had to go on the market. This was no ordinary house and it was the sort that you either loved or hated but wouldn’t feel indifferent about. And then there was Coronavirus but somehow Coronavirus was in their favour because once estate agents were open again, after Lockdown, they had more viewings than ever before. Other people have talked about more people wanting to get away from town centres, more people wanting to find a place where they can have an appropriate office at home rather than working on the kitchen table, more people wanting to appreciate the countryside, have land, grow veg…….
The house was sold and now Liz K has moved to Scotland, last week. We met up in a socially distanced outdoor space to go for a walk and say goodbye in a socially distanced way, no hugging, not even a shake of the hand. Without that, it doesn’t really seem real.
There are several things that we did with Liz K. When I say ‘we’, that means Liz (M), Gwyn and Pete. We’ve been on days out on a narrowboat, been out for meals and ‘Highlight of the Year’ was the Christmas Buffet, held at our house. We had a substantial buffet, with Liz K always bringing her speciality, her homemade Cheese Straws. Gwyn supplied the Goodie Bags, Pete the drink and we supplied the Christmas Crackers and games. The crackers always had games inside them like wind-up Racing Santas or Selfie Brussel Sprout Glasses.
Gwyn’s Goodie bags were amazing. Each present was wrapped up and each present was so imaginative. We played Christmas Bingo (with prizes) and Throw the Hoop on the Reindeer Antlers. We did Animal Sculptures with Balloons and Liz K was excellent at that (although some of the photos of her with her animal sculpture did look quite obscene). Gwyn gave us battery-operated ‘Penguins Racing Up the Ski Slope’ about eight years ago which comes out, and is put on display, on 1 December each year, an integral part of the Christmas Buffet.
The fact is, this year Gwyn is no longer with us and Liz K has moved away. Times change, things move on but the memories of those Christmases will never fade, mainly because there are soooooooooooo many photos.
But there is one ‘Special’ event that I associate with 2010. Nothing to do with Liz K or Gwyn. It was ‘The Move to the New Building’. Since 1999, I had been the Director of an organisation run by disabled people, providing services to disabled people. I loved the job and I loved the building we were based in. It was built in 1907, the first new building built for services to disabled people. It had a history. It was fully accessible, well almost fully accessible. The doors were very wide to accommodate ‘spinal carriages’. However, the door handles were very high. The main hall was huge, flat and could accommodate the equivalent of more than 150 wheelchairs. However, there was a stage/dias that could not be made accessible. There was a large downstairs kitchen where food could be prepared for the huge social gatherings that were held every week. However, it needed modernisation. There was also a balcony at the back of the hall, no one today really knew why.
But the Guild Hall’s fate was sealed, back in 1992, when it was made into a Grade II Listed building. As someone who loved history, it should be a listed building because it was a central feature in the social history of the lives of disabled people, in Leicester and UK. It was radical in it’s time but to be radical in 21st century there needed to be alterations. Those alterations like making fully accessible toilets, redesigning the kitchen, making alterations to the stage and installing a lift, even lowering the door handles, were not allowed because it was a Grade II Listed building and so in 2000 the process of selling the Guild Hall, and the process of finding a New Building, began. And wow, was it hard‽ It involved a ‘temporary’ move to a building that was suitable until suddenly our services expanded greatly and it was much too small. It involved clearing out the Guild Hall, a building with huge cupboards and spare rooms. Nobody had to throw away anything away in 90 years because there was always a cupboard to stuff things in. Not only was there an enormous amount of furniture, crockery, equipment to get rid of but people had just put scraps of paper and bags of rubbish in the cupboards as well. No one else was interested in doing this job but I loved it. I ‘felt’ the history. Things went to the local museum and the records archives. Things were sold at auction houses; we ‘loaned’ some (150) chairs, and china that would cater for 100 people, to local charities and took very little with us.
In 2010, at Easter Weekend, we moved into a brand new office, not necessarily how we originally envisaged it, on a Business Park. People loved it, and ten years on it is still there.
So, 2010 was a very significant year for mosaic: shaping disability services. Having achieved the move I knew that I would stay with the organisation until I retired. It was the best 16 years of my working life. I loved it and consider myself to be extremely fortunate to have such a job.
So, thank you Liz K, for the photograph of the 2010 Calendar Tea Towel, for the memories of our friendship, for the great times we shared together (especially the Christmas Buffet), more memories of Gwyn and letting me go down the ‘Rabbit Warren’ of my time at mosaic: shaping disability services.